Nothing I said is wrong.
If you pre-order digitally YOU HAVE bought the game and they ONLY have to refund your purchase IF it is required by law. Some people will only have promised to put down their $5. If they don't buy the game they can't play their character, so... People have dropped $60 bones on it so far.
Also I don't even know what you're talking about with you being on the moon and my wife being on Mars. When I went to the moon, someone was on my fireteam. When I went to the Earth their ship was there too, there's no way they could have followed me that quickly, and then they were there when I touched down on Earth. So it's already set up to where you stay in the same area online. People were showing up and then disappearing from my game. Nothing you said about the game makes the damndest bit of sense in the context of what I experienced.
Also if I have to wait for my wife to catch up, big deal. Do that on Borderlands 2 all the time. She'll go to the restroom, I'lll clear out an area, and then sometimes i come here and read a few posts and reply while I wait for her to catch up.
You tried to correct me but NOTHING here corrects me. It would not hurt MY experience. You may play your games differently, and waiting for your wife might not sound like fun, but neither is
"Hey hun can I play?"
"Sorry babe it has no co-op"
"Can you swap monitors so that I can watch Netflix?"
Then I have to unplug everything, swap the HDMI plugs, and then I can't really voice chat because netflix will be running. Or it could cause her to have huge dperession. my wife takes a lot of pills to keep herself together, so having co-op means the difference between playing it all the time, and playing it when I get around to it.